Cyrber boyfriend... cyber mum? oO

Gratz to those concerned

You can't transfer your sister's "mistake" onto everyone else as that being what's bound to happen. People are individuals, are they not? What works for one person isn't going to work for everyone else. No one said you needed to meet anyone online, so you really have no need for telling anyone/everyone else to strictly only meet people offline. People will do what makes them happy, and whichever method they prefer, be it online or offline.


Moving on to the real topic..

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over two years, we met online before this, and were dating for a while, and he brought me to Dofus, and we've been playing ever since. I look forward to us ending up on a topic like this soon.

Congrats to everyone on their weddings, engagement, and the baby.~

This post has been edited by Meggeh: 23 Jun 2009, 19:15

Hopefully, the newborn will be full-grown in time to experience the full glory and joy of World War 3 just like my kid.

Dubbeldum is a betaplayer on Rushu and -Aliice- has played on Rushu since like 3 years back. I don't think they've seen this topic or the message at dofus.com. Not sure who Angel-tt and Zenitora are though.

Yes, congratulations to all of you (again)! Meeting through Dofus is quite impressive ^^.

/youbutsu

This post has been edited by medgix: 23 Jun 2009, 21:03

Angel-tt and Zenitora are players I knew from Shika a while ago! They were very nice people. I hope they have a great life together.

The story of Arweena and leyline

One day not so long ago I found out that for one of my college classes I will need to actually play a MMORPG. Classmate of mine assigned to the same task said he would find us a game. Couple of weeks later he came to the class and said the game we are going to play is called Dofus and that I should download it and look him up there.
So the next day I googled the game downloaded it and made my first character, a sacrier. I had no clue whatsoever what in the hell I'm supposed to do but I faked it good. After a while I decided I don't like the sacrier and made the cra. Played the cra for a while and didn't like it so it got retired again and I made Arweena. By this time I have been in a guild called Sarmageddon, met some great people in that guild but slowly the guild was going downhill. At the same time my marriage was going downhill as well and I was in a weird mood of not really wanting to do anything but play and forget all my problems.

My husband ( at the time who was hooked on the game as well ) was getting more and more abusive, more and more distant and I have been postponing my decision to tell him it's over for a while now.
Then all of a sudden the guild I was in fell apart and I made my own guild called Sunrise. A couple of my friends from Sarmageddon went with me and Sunrise slowly started to live.
One day a friend of my Ivy ( eni by the name of Maegan in dofus) told me she wants leyline in our guild. By this time I have seen leyline around, once at the pvp map and once in dreggon sanctuary where he politely asked if he could join a fight my husband was about to do. While my ex husband was having issues with one dreggon, leyline finished off the entire mob by himself ( 700+ mob mind you) and dissappeared very quickly. Seeing leyline in his 12 ap crit gear left me in awe and the only thought was: " I want to be that".
I told Ivy to go ahead and invite leyline and she sends me a message on Gtalk that ley wants to talk to me personally. I told her to give him my MSN adress and she tells me it's too complicated for him and he wants me to add him (! lazy sob god how he annoyed me with that I think I was cussing him out and I didn't even know him).

So I add his MSN address, he accepts my invitation and I send a message: hey, it's arweena ivy said you wanted to talk to me.
He didn't reply for 2 hours!! I'm sitting at the computer, watching the hour go by and wait... and wait... and wait... and wait some more.... finally he replies: so why should I join Sunrise?
I was bit puzzled and a bit shocked... he doesn't reply for 2 hours and now out of the blue without hi how are you I'm leyline just asks why should he join.... So my reply was ( by this time I was extremely annoyed and wanted to say to hell with you): " I will make you lasagna if you do." And to that he replies:" Why lasagna? Why treat me like any other typical male out there?"
I ask: So what would you like instead?
His reply is where I fell. He had me with that reply. He told me:" Send me a rose instead." C'mon, what guy today wants a rose???
So we started to bullshit and talk about dofus and he tells me he wants to reroll leyline and start over. I wanted to know why and had to ask: " Ok tell me one thing." Before I even had the chance to finish my question which was going to be more about his heals, crits, int bonus and such he comes with:" That I want your naked body? Sure" .... WTF??? This guy managed to leave me speechless twice in an hour and that is something only the rare have done..... I think I was so confused that the only excuse that came to my mind was: Err... You do know I'm married? He said : I do now.
Well shortly thereafter we finished our conversation and I convinced him to join my guild which he did the next day. Well his brother joined him because ley was debating quitting the game.
Next day ley messaged me on MSN again and we spent a good 4 hours or so talking to each other about everything. This continued day after day and I felt so attracted to him, couldn't stop talking to him, caught myself watching the time whn he would come online, waiting eagerly to talk to him some more. Soon I noticed he started waking up and coming online at the same time as I was. Mind you there was 6 hour difference between us and this man got up at 3 am his time to talk to me and went to bed at 3 am MY time when I usually logged off and went to bed. I didn't want to go to bed because I wanted to talk to him and logging off was the hardest thing I had to do.

About a month after we started talking ley started sending me songs over the MSN, some were his favorite songs, others were love songs and I found that to be a bit weird. Why is he sending me love songs like "Lips of angel" "If loving you is wrong" " Did you happen to see the most beautiful girl in the world" " If I said you had a beautiful body would you hold it against me" and this is where I started to realize I'm thinking more and more about him and that I have started to fall in love with him. I knew I had to tell my husband at the time that it's definitely over and I knew I would have to tell ley that I feel more than just friendship for him .... both decisions scared me. I didn't know to what extreme my ex would get pissed and what is he capable of doing ( he has hit me a few times before that and was violent to our son) and what if ley just wants friendship? What if he laughs in my face?

Somehow it just happened ( don't know if it was fate or coincidence) that right around that time ley sent me the song " Kryptonite" with the message promise to love me. My chicken ass replied I promise to love you as a friend. ( At the same time i was beating my head on the table for being such a chicken). He asked me that night when my ex got off the game saying he is going to bed: Does he not want to spend time with you? Somewhere there something inside me just broke and I told ley everything about my marriage and how I lack the courage to do anything and how unhappy I was for the past couple of years. We sat in dreggon sanctuary for about 3 hours just talking, mainly me crying and him listening and trying to comfort me.

Couple of days after that ley and I were fighting dreggons as usual and the idea of him coming to Croatia to meet the entire guild somehow came up. He went silent for a while and I asked him what was wrong. He told me that when he comes he wouldn't know how to look me in the eye or shake my hand. I was puzzled by that and asked him why. He said he wouldn't stop at the handshake because he would probably kiss my hand and just go on to kiss my arm, and look for the first hotel room. NOW I went silent. I was shocked, scared, happy thrilled,all the same time. All that was running through my mind was" tell him tell him now". Still quite scared I told him that the best I could offer him was a night, maybe a day... we were 5252 miles apart, him being in Florida, me being in Croatia.... how would it work? ley remained silent again and then all of a sudden told me:" I don't want tonight I want forever, I don't want sex I want love, I don't want a friend I want my other half". My reaction speechless again. Silent.... speechless, breathless... All I remember was him asking " Do you understand what I am saying?" I said :" yeah I do... I feel the same way."

That night I told my ex it was over. He was pissed he started yelling, threatening... next day I kicked him out.
Ley came online and asked me how do we want to do this. Do I want to come to him or does he come to me. I asked him for a week to make my decision and to realize myself what am I getting myself into. He says that week was the longest week of his life but at the end we agreed I would come to him. He sent me the money for the ticket and I got my passport and visa and in about a month after that I was on the plane to Tampa, Florida. ( I have never flown in my life before and I have a fear of heights and planes.... what love makes us do). After landing in Chicago to catch the connecting flight to Tampa I realized I won't make it in time to my flight to Tampa. I called Ivy and told her to leave a message for ley that I will be catching a later flight. ( ley had his cellphone disconnected because we exchanged phone numbers and managed to have $ 3000 bill on his end and 4000 kunas on my end). Ivy tells me he is offline. Thousand questions and fears running through my mind.... What do I do if he is not there? Will he be there? Will he get the message? Or will he get disappointed and think I ditched him and won't even look at the laptop? Longest 2 hours of my life.

Now to take a moment and see what is going on with ley... ley was at the airport at precisely 3 pm his time as I was due to land at 4 pm his time. The plane came but not me. So he waits a couple of hours and pretty well pissed and disappointed goes home to see what the hell is going on. He finds the message on his laptop ( yay!) and hurries back to the airport taking the laptop with him this time xD. He calls one of his college professors to pull his connections and see if I even landed in the US. 7 pm rolls around and he is back at the airport waiting for me. Poor guy xD
At the same time I got on my second(!) connecting flight to Tampa and just my luck we have to go around because of the rain. About 5 hours later than what I was originally supposed to I finally landed in Tampa. I am getting out of the plane and heading to get my bag when I spot him..... I started to walk back to him and all I could do was fall into his arms without even saying hi, not even a word.... I was so relieved he was there and I am finally with him and all I wanted was him to hold me and never let go. After about 10 minutes we finally let go of each other and said hi and kissed each other.

We spent 6 weeks together... it was the most beautiful 6 weeks of my life. During those 6 weeks he proposed to me and I agreed. I went back to Croatia, finished my divorce; found out I was pregnant(!), and after 6 months on feb 8th I was back in ley's arms this time without missing any flights xD. March 23rd 2008 we got married in real life, exactly one year after we started talking on MSN.

Woah, thats an amazing story
First time I've read so much text on a forum without clicking away, lol

How long have you been playing dofus anyway? I've been playing for about 2 years myself and have also come about some adventures myself but non quite this exciting.
Well, good luck to you all =p

Always sad to know you're not the one experiencing it yet!

We have been playing for about 3 years. Lucky us to still be interested in playing. xD



Who needs E-Harmony when there is Dofus? sometimes all it is is letting your guard down for a little bit.

hey ppl i just dont understand somthing how do u get married in dofus and do u have to be a p2p to be able to marry

and if ur a p2p but ur love one isnt can u still marry

helll that is awesome story i hope u have a good time

This post has been edited by [MOD]Wish: 24 Jun 2009, 17:46

Your story could do a beautiful movie!!! Hahahahahahaha!!

I really got touched by your story, nice!!!
My best wishes for both of you *-*!

My side of the story (because a guildie asked me to)

I am venomous, I am filled with hatred, I am rotten to the core. These were the thoughts running through my head. Damned bowls and joints just wouldn't take the anger off. I could feel myself seething at every Storm Troopers perc. Memories of an out cry for help, left to simmer on a back burner in a dank dungeon of silence. How many people did I attempt to help because "you're an eni" how much ridicule I got because of the hated comparisons to Rozmaryn or SambaTraube. Yes I wanted to be that good, but I was better, I didn't have a need to have people hailing me, and I got where I was by being alone. Fuck them.

A heated argument. A spiteful argument. God how I loathed them right now. Storm Troopers and leyline had part ways, and it would seem like leyline would find herself a grave and crawl in. Fuck them. I am done, maybe stay long enough to re-roll myself a better character. Maybe.

Maegan had pm'ed me to join her guild almost instantly after I left ST. That's what it felt like. I wanted to be alone. I wanted to get away from such an addicting game that I had spoiled myself upon while studying. College and Dofus. Hell, if the game would work at college... that would be great (and it did for the remaining period of my Associate studies). "huh? what? What guild?" was all I could think of. I told Maegan to have her leader to message me, got told she wasn't on, but I could message her via MSN. I didn't want to. I didn't want to do anything other than run my fingers across the touchpad of my laptop and kill things and wish what ever I was hitting were my perceived enemies at the time. "Have her message me when she gets to it" I told Meagan and proceeded to give her my MSN at the time. While waiting for the invite from MSN I snuck off to the bathroom, undid my bag. I cleaned off a nice nugget, and rolled myself three joints. I went back to the comp saw the message box from someone new, clicked accept and walked out the front door. I did a rotation of laundry, I smoked the joint, took the trash down to the curb. I was furious. Maddening so. Getting stoned to calm my anger seemed so great. In fact instead of walking back in like normal, I walked to the back yard gate, reached up and over to reach the latch, let myself in and lit up another joint.

Ever been so angry and hurt you cried? I was there. If I could just hurt something to make that something feel as hurt as I did, I think I will feel better. I hit a tree. I kicked a couple of rocks in the dark. I muttered obscenities under my breathe. I smoked my second joint. Getting there I thought to myself as I outed it and put the two roaches on a crossbeam that was next to the gate. I walked in the back door, saw a message and basically ignored it. I was not in a talkative mood. I did a couple of dreggon fights. I enjoyed them. Hell, I have been in this area for the last 75 levels. I made Dreggon Set pieces. Got laughed at for it. I had myself a perfect Xyothine crit set. I had 12 ap after Stim, I was 1/2 with my wand, and I could dodge every type of dreggon there was. Fuck them all.

Calming down some, relaxing some. I finally peeked over to this message that was so silently waiting to be replied to. It was Arweena asking to me to Join Sunrise. I was so furious with the prospect of a guild that all I could ask is why should I? I get an answer of I'll make you lasagna. Hmm, munchies, but I would be waiting weeks for it to get here... not good. So I went and started the oven for a pizza. I sit back down and tell her to send me a rose instead. I could press a rose, it could remind me of what was going on right now. So what do I get? This emoticon icon of a rose. All I could do is shaking my head. That wasn't working for me; so I told Arweena "nah a real one".

We made a conversation out of nothing. Chatted about Dofus, chatted about guilds. Pretty much asinine bullshit. I didn't want any real part of another guild. I was also in an MSN conversation with my brother. He's not my blood brother, but damn this guy and I just clicked from second one. just something about him and the similar mannerisms, same games... same thoughts on a lot of things. almost born on the same day, just a few years apart. I had given him my login and said here, I am done. He told me I wasn't, adamantly said I wasn't that I would be back and in less than a week. Bastard knows me too well.

I went out for that third joint, pizza went into the oven. I had 15 minutes. After that one I was finally where I felt I needed to be. My groove. My fuck everyone else and shit down their necks mood. Coming in I plugged in the earphones to the laptop and blasted my metal. Cocky as ever I noticed that I had started to say something to Arweena and never finished. I told her I was pretty well done and wanted to re-roll. She started to ask something. Started with a sentence. So I gave her one of my own. "Ok tell me one thing." she had said. "That I want your naked body?" was all I could think of. Then she tells me she is married, by asking if I knew. I did then.

The following day I had my brother add me to her guild. If I was going to be back, might as well be with new faces. Oh, she's online. Let me harass her. Mind you I was still fuming from the night before. But the conversation just flowed. At a couple of points I went afk, but never very far from the computer. I could read what she was typing while standing in the shadows of the back yard and smoke my pot in peace. We talked about anything that came to mind. Dofus, kids, life. If nothing else she kept me going in game and out by way of our conversations. The only thing that puzzled me was the lack of mention about her husband. I started to think she was pulling my leg, and it wasn't my third one; damn it.

About a month of this conversing had me really interested in the woman. But, I had a conscience; at least to a degree. I thought it was more of the same "piece of the forbidden fruit", wanting what we know we can't have. Hell it was over the internet. This just could not be happening. I better lay off the pot. So what do I do? Smoked double time. I didn't want to face reality. I wanted to be in this imaginary world of enjoying her as she was presenting herself. Not the married woman she said she was. I had a break coming up soon. So the topic changed to a real life meeting. How would this work? I remember we were fighting our normal dreggons when the proposition came up. The guild had like a weekly meeting and that I wasn't there so I wanted to know when, how, where. I wanted to but. I knew I couldn't stop at a handshake, or the archaic kiss on the hand. I knew myself better than that.

So I told her just where I stood. I didn't want sex I wanted love, I didn't want a friend I wanted my other half, I don't want tonight I want forever. I couldn't put it more simply than that. It wasn't until the following night that we discussed how we were going to go about it. Was I going to fly to her? Was she going to fly to me? If I went there, I would have a matter of days; if she came here, it was all up to her. The lady told me to give her a week to decide. Damn her, I wanted an answer now. That week was frustrating. To top it all off, I walked into class and just told the entire class that I was in love. Point blank. I made everyone so silent. It took about 30 minutes for the class to regroup and then the questions started flooding in. God I was being interrogated by my peers.

The most enjoyable interrogation came on the free ride home, I got smoked out and was demanded answers I wouldn't give to the class in return. I still outsmarted her in the end. Just pack the bowl, hush, smoke, and drive. Oh wait, circle the block again, I'm not done yet.

When the week was finally up, I didn't say hi, or hello, or bok. I just flat out asked who. She said she would come to me. So the plan needed to be put in action. I gathered the finances. She said she had a lot of leg work to do on her end. We finished up about the same time, and I wired her the money. She bought the tickets and told me when she would be there, and how long she would be. I was ecstatic. I was overjoyed. I smoked a joint.

I never got an ultimatum about my smoking habit, but I did get the "you shouldn't" lecture, and it sorta stuck for once. I started to put it down. DunDunDun. The day arrives when she is supposed to come. I wake up and she is supposed to have already left. I have heard enough of the "she will take the money and run" theories. I started to get really nervous. Was this really happening? A friend of mine comes and nabs me, and we hang out for a few before her taking me to the airport. We stuck it out the hour before Arweena was due to arrive. We had an uber expensive meal at the BK, and all my friend could say was "calm down dude, she''ll be here."

We waited for about an hour or so after she was due to arrive before really starting to panic. I got in touch with the security major to find out what ever I could and was stonewalled. I broke down and called a professor of mine to see what he could do. He called back after a long 20 minute wait and told me she had indeed entered the US, but that was all he could get, or was willing to share with me. My friend had to go home and get ready for work. She dropped me off at home and I raced to the laptop. Oh shit, there's a message waiting for me. Arweena had missed her connecting flight due to Customs, and would be arriving a few hours later. That few hours was as far away as I was from driving all the way back to the airport.

I got my folks to drop me off there, just in case there were anymore delays. This time I brought my laptop with me. I chatted with a mutual friend between the incoming masses. I had an older photo of her, and she said she was doing her hair before coming. So all I could do is hope that I could spot her without embarrassing myself by asking every woman that got off the flight if they were her. Well in my typical fashion I stood by the escalators out of the way and to the background, and just watched everyone. If the guards didn't already know what was going on, I am sure I would have been carted off for this. Then this woman walks by, our eyes connect, and she just stops traffic. Not one word was said. This was Arweena. And the only thing that could happen did. We hugged as tightly as movie actors try to portray in their romance movies. We were like that for what seemed hours. Not one word spoken. Just the tightest, warmest hug that a couple could share. If anyone else was watching, they would swear we knew each other our whole lives. We walked to the baggage claim, and I did the only thing I knew I could do. Carry her bags where we needed to be, to be picked up. Problem was she wanted to carry her own bags. This is where we should jack-slap people and tell them to quit being stupid. But I didn't, and just grabbed her bags.

The next six weeks were magical. Disney style. All my dreams came true in her. I had to marry this woman. I felt so compelled to. The shocker was that she said yes. Time stalled yet flew by. She had to go back, she had loose ends to tie up. I had to finish out my college studies, and find other things; like a job. A very tear filled goodbye was all there was too it. we cried to the airport, we cried at, I cried all the way to class. I cried in class. I got told to go home by the class. I never did leave class, but cried my way through it. The next 6 months of separation was more than either one of us wanted to deal with.

She finally came back, with her son in tow. On March 23rd, a year to the day after our first conversation, we were married. We are still quite ecstatic about each other. Oh, Volim Te Arweena

Stopped reading there.

Days of our Lives, anyone?

Grats to all of the above!

this is great news.

I just woke up, its raining and dull outside, but this - this made me happy today. congrats to all mentioned, love is the most beautiful of things,found at the most rare of times in the most unexpected places. XD

congrats guys. wish you well in ur marriages and babies =p

congrats guys. wish you well in ur marriages and babies =p

A what a nice baby and congratulations a man i missed soo much i was playing this game but know i still play it but to rarely[color="#0000fa"][/color]